I Found My Husband’s Diary and Discovered Something That Has Left Me Reeling

Our reader reached out for help with a difficult situation she found herself in. She accidentally discovered her husband’s diary and came across an entry that turned her world completely upside down.

Our readers are divided. Some believe that Janet should leave her husband.

• I would leave the diary on the bed open to the page it had that written and my wedding ring on top of the book. With a note, keep your so-called soulmate, I am going to go find mind. © Christina R. Sanchez-Jiménez / Facebook
• Don’t leave a cheating husband a gold wedding ring, sell it and spoil yourself with something!! But do the diary open on the page!! © Karen Rouse Rovers / Facebook
• The man’s a cheat and a liar, and you have been in a three-way relationship without knowing it. They are both using you to hide the fact that they are gay. They are totally disrespectful and disgusting excuses for men, and the sooner you get the hell away from them both the better. You could be a recipient of aids because of their lies and deceit. Leave them alone to each other. © Karena Adrienne Terry / Facebook
• Forewarned is forearmed, my mama always said. I’d clean out the bank account and be gone. There’s no trusting anything either of them say. It’s an extreme betrayal. Happy ex-wife. Happy future life for all! © Mary Aguilar-Chandler / Facebook
• Her husband loves another, and is gay. She needs to move on, find her true soulmate, or live as a triple, if her husband truly loves both of them, AND all 3 of them are good with it. I personally would move on. Great friend, who slept with your husband. And trustworthy husband, he cheated on you. © Jewel Myra Levine / Facebook

While others suggest she should look into the situation more thoroughly.

• There are different types of soulmates, friendship, romantic, a dog etc. so you should talk to him to get an opportunity for him to explain himself before you jump into conclusions. © Emma Yolanda Penman / Facebook
• Sit down with them both, confront them and tell them if that’s how they want to continue life. Then I will step aside, and I will just be friends with both of them. © TA Alexander / Facebook
• Maybe your husband put it there for you to find. Does this change the way you feel about your husband? He stated he loved you. Is that enough for you? I’d let it go for now. Sometimes it’s best to just ponder awhile and see where things are going. © Patricia Lehman / Facebook

What would you do in a situation like this?

Here’s another story showing why reading your partner’s personal diary isn’t always a good idea.