I Stopped Recognizing My Husband Because of His Cruel Pranks on Me

A strong marriage is built on trust, respect, and support. When these core things are missing, instability and conflict can arise, often fueled by insecurities, power struggles, or mental health challenges. Recently, a reader reached out to share her story about her husband’s troubling behavior, seeking advice on how to address the sudden shift.

Thank you, Emma, for confiding in us about the issues you’re facing with your husband. We’ve compiled five suggestions to assist you in managing this difficult period.

Here are some advises.

• Be honest and clear.
  Talk to your husband calmly about how his behavior affects you. Use “I” statements like “I felt hurt when...” to avoid blame. Be clear about what you need, whether it’s more empathy or stopping hurtful actions. Focus on rebuilding trust.
• Set boundaries.
  Clearly express what behaviors are unacceptable, especially around sensitive topics. Emphasize the need for respect and kindness.
• Consider therapy.
  A therapist can help both of you communicate better and understand each other. Seeking help shows commitment, not failure.

• Rebuild connection.
  Spend time together, share feelings, and engage in activities to foster empathy and closeness.
• Prioritize self-care.
  Take care of your emotional health through hobbies, exercise, and reflection. This will help you make better decisions.

Marriage can change unexpectedly. In some cases, a partner may start manipulating or controlling the other, as these women experienced. What once felt equal can become a struggle for power. Recognizing this shift early is key to restoring respect and balance.