10 Nightmarish Ex Stories That Will Make You Grateful for Your Current Relationship"

Relationships with mothers-in-law can be a real challenge for many. Many daughters-in-law often try to find a compromise and approach their husband’s mother with understanding. However, there are situations where it becomes necessary to openly confront, especially when it comes to matters involving children. This is precisely what happened with our reader.
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If it helps, you might want to apologize first for your outburst of anger to have a calm conversation with your MIL later. Share your feelings and concerns. Say something like, “I’ve been trying to treat my baby’s eyes for so long that it was really frustrating to find out the baby has to go through the treatment again.”
Tell her that you appreciate her help, but warn her that home remedies shouldn’t be used when it comes to a child’s health as you don’t know if the baby is allergic or not.
Set some boundaries when it comes to babysitting your child. Let your MIL know that certain decisions, especially regarding health, should be made by you and your husband. Clearly state that you rely only on professional medical advice and expect others caring for your child to do the same.
Stand firm on your decision about her not babysitting your child until she accepts your point of view. Make sure she knows that it’s not about blaming her but ensuring that your kid is healthy and safe.
Explain to your MIL that dropping milk into your baby’s eyes might not be a safe or effective remedy. If the pills or eye drops prescribed by the doctor don’t help, it’s highly unlikely that milk will do anything. Besides, since the infection got even worse, it might be a sign that something serious is happening. Consult a professional immediately and check if your baby has some kind of allergy.
You might want to give your MIL a second chance and ask her to help in different ways. There are lots of alternative ways she can contribute to your child’s well-being that also align with your preferences. You might try and ask her to come up with some non-medical activities or playtime. Let her know that she’s welcome in your house and her help is wanted as long as it doesn’t hurt the baby.
In addition to these suggestions, we decided to reach out to our readers and find out what they think about this situation:
This is not the first story where a daughter-in-law is unsure how to navigate her relationship with her mother-in-law and whether she should at all. Here’s another situation where the mother-in-law wanted to spend the honeymoon with her son and his young wife.