Long flights can be tough and often leave you feeling uncomfortable. Sitting in the same spot for hours can make you restless, and it takes a lot of patience to get through it. But there are times when certain things happen that go beyond just being annoying — they can really frustrate you and make the whole experience much worse.
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- You yourself should have reclined your seat so the kiddo wouldn’t have leg room to kick your seat. © Unknown author / Reddit
- This reminds me of my flight back from Egypt. Every time I shifted in my seat, he began kicking it as aggressively as he could. When I leaned back slightly, he called the flight attendant and began screaming at her that a woman couldn’t lean her seat into his space. He was pushing it as hard as possible to force my seat up. Flight attendant apologized and told him I could lean my seat back if I wanted. My husband kept asking if I wanted to swap with him. I said no, and leaned my seat all the way back for a seven hour flight. It was worth being constantly kicked from behind the entire time. © begoniann / Reddit
- On a DC-9 Stretch charter flight from Travis AFB to Japan in 1978, I sat in front of a quite large woman. It was a 14 hr flight and every time I tried to recline my seat to sleep, she claimed I was hurting her legs. © MrBaseball77 / Reddit
Here are some advice that can help in similar situations.
- Start Kindly: Politely ask the person causing the disturbance to stop. A gentle approach can often fix the issue.
- Be Firm if Needed: If the problem continues, ask again with a firmer tone, but stay polite.
- Change Seats: If possible, ask a flight attendant to move you to another seat to avoid more trouble.
- Write a Note: If talking doesn’t work, consider giving the parents a polite written note about the issue.
- Give Feedback Later: After the flight, share your experience with the airline so they can improve.
Whether it’s a noisy passenger, crying child, or someone kicking your seat, some “on plane” situations can push your patience to the limit and make the flight feel even longer.