My Husband Barged Into the Bathroom, and I’m Shocked by How He Explained It

A woman approached us about a conflict with her husband. It seemed that everything started over trivial matters, but it escalated into a real storm, and now she is asking us for advice on how to explain her point of view to her husband. However, our readers believe there is only one solution: divorce.

Our reader dropped us a message.

Our readers noticed alarming signs in such behavior.

• He’s a controlling narcissist, record as much of his behaviour as you can remember. Divorce him. © Anne Mildon / Facebook
• Privacy is a must for shower/baths, getting ready. NO trust = no relationship, Any women should leave as soon as they can, that’s pretty bad. © Mary E Ward / Facebook
• Oh sweetie, he is a controlling freak. Contact a lawyer and get out of there. His behavior is not normal. Go where you are safe and make sure he can not harm you. If you have kids then it is not safe for them either. Red flags.... © Ilonka Wimmer-Ljungqvist / Facebook
• I’d be explaining his unreasonable behaviour to him via my solicitor! © Linda Bond / Facebook

• This is not just a red flag, but a true cry that it’s time for you to divorce him. I’m sure the divorce will be ugly; narcissists don’t let go of their women easily. Talk to a lawyer, prepare the documents, find a safe place, and gather support from relatives and friends. And mentally, be prepared for him to become even angrier and more aggressive. © Lucy Hems / Facebook
• Wait, you’re asking how to explain to him???? Instead of packing a few things and not looking back! © Mary Bloch / Facebook
• You can stay in the bathroom all day if you want & all night too. You don’t need to be near him if possible. © Karen Beggs / Facebook

What would you advise the author of the letter?

And here’s the story of another woman who discovered that her husband married her only for her money.